Choosing a life partner with whom you can spend the rest of your life is a huge decision and must be taken seriously. Everyone wants to have lovely and everlasting happiness with their partner, so it is important to choose a wifey material. Of course, everyone’s preference is different but being a partner and raising a family is what ultimately makes women a wife material.
1. She shows love and affection
A woman who is affectionate and loving is considered wife material. A good life partner is going to be a future mother, so she should share love selflessly.
2. She believes in your potential and encourages you
Wifey material will never ask you to give up on your dreams. She wants to see you achieve them. She will always cheer you up, encourage you to have faith in yourself.
3. She knows the struggles of being in a marriage
She knows the struggles and puts effort to make a relationship work. She is aware of the ups and downs of a relationship. She understands that giving up on a relationship is never an option.
4. She shows good culinary skills
Cooking is a sign of a woman’s ability to take care of her family.
If your girl knows how to cook then you can rely on her in the future.
5. She knows how to communicate
Communication is key to a healthy relationship. If your girl can communicate effectively without losing her patience. And express herself clearly to you then she is the one.
6. She shows interest in the things you love
If she is wifey material, she will take interest in the things you like and make attempts to learn and listen to you when you talk about them.
7. She sees the future with you
It is important to know if she sees the future with you or not. If she does then she will show clear signs that she wants to build a family with you.
8. She stays honest and loyal
She never makes you feel like she is hiding something. She always presents herself as an honest and loyal woman.
9. She makes you laugh
Men like women with a good sense of humor. Spending time with laughter and joy makes a relationship last. He loves how you lighten the mood of the room.
10. She accepts you as you are
Acceptance in any relationship, good or bad, is necessary. She accepts you for who you are. She never asks you to change for her. She loves you as you are.
11. She treats you with respect
Respect must be from both sides. If she is a wife material she will not only give respect to you but also to your decisions.
Bettina – Ah. So my common mistake is putting men on a pedestal and giving too much. That makes so much sense. I feel like in every relationship I’ve ever been in I’m always giving and over doting and I think I’m going to try to not do that. Just to see how it works
Elsa – Doesn’t matter how good a spouse is if their marital partner isn’t in to them. My now ex- husband lost feelings for me early in the marriage, if he ever really had any for me. I wasn’t what he wanted but I was good wife material, so I served a material purpose.
Cheryl – Spot on!!! But I do these things for me. Not for him. So many people today (I see it in my actively dating friends) try to be the guy/girl they think other people want them to be and forget to do things do themselves. They forget to put themselves first. They say “but I’m not a selfish person”. It’s not about being selfish. It’s about working on being the best you so you can give and receive fully in a relationship.
Irhine Soriano – I feel It’s good to build myself and create my own passion and create my own happiness in order to create a good relationship with a guy which leads to long lasting relationship
Darlene – I freely admit that I struggle with trust. I have been let down time and again, so I just can’t find it in my heart to fully trust a man